BDSM part 3
16th March 2025
Although outlining the science (part 1) and spirituality (part 2) of BDSM is yet-again postponed, I was nudged towards writing a partial lits of setups and plays I have either already done, or planned on doing. Items below are specifically the ones I found missing in other writings, and not the ones I most liked or most want to try.
Without further ado:
- Sex fighting - submission fighting or BJJ style wrestling, playing with orgasm and choking
- Sex chores - the sub is getting "a dessert" after dinner, everyday cleanup at a particular time etc.
- Sex chores - the sub always falls asleep with the dick as the pacifier
- Sex chores - the sub is asked to routinely edge throughout the day
- Pain play - the sub is required to "always be prepared", painal play otherwise
- Pain play - the sub has 60 seconds to make the dom cum, while getting progressively harsher/more painful penalties if failed
- Pain play - dom applies pain until the sub starts genuinely crying (and not just screaming/sobbing etc)
- Group play - the sub has to find another sub for the dom to fuck
- Group play - the sub is playing below or above a third person she finds
- Humiliation - the sub turns into a fleshlight, i.e. has sex/gives a BJ me when the dom watches porn (ignoring the sub)
- Humiliation - the sub is called the names of other people/dom's exes/is aware that the dom is fantasizing of other people
- Humiliation - the sub is asked to show what porn she's been watching/reading
- Humiliation - the sub has to find porn/erotica which will arouse the dom
- Incest roleplay - "dad discovers daughter sexuality"
- Incest roleplay - "dad forces the daughter into a slut"
- Incest roleplay - "sister/brother exploration"
- Dirt play - the sub has to clean the dom's feet with her mouth
- Dirt play - the sub is forced to lick the spit from the floor
- Dirt play - the sub has to clean up/BJ an unwashed dick
- Body fluids - the sub is drinking/swallowing the saliva
- Urine play - the sub is forced to piss/wet herself fully clothed (i.e. toilet denial)
- Urine play - the sub gives BJ while on the toilet
- Urine play - the sub cleans the dick after toilet use
- Urine play - free use urinal, e.g. in bed when sleeping/"watching a movie and not wanting to miss the scene", the sub has to drink dom's piss (and not make a mess)
- Food play - the sub is forced on a cum-based diet
- Food play - forced denial of food/forced diet
- Creative - the sub and the dom are writing erotica stories for each other
- Psychological - mask play, the dom and the sub each have several "changing personality" masks
- Psychological - curiosity denial
- Medical play - sex while unconcious/on sleep medication